Wedding ceremony

Assima Lourdes
F.Y.Bcom B  C183245




 On the wedding day, a close relative of the groom who is supposed to help the bride dress up comes to her house with the wedding dress and other items. Before going to the church all close relatives and friends bless the bride and the groom in their respective residences. The wedding car comes to pick the bride after reaching the groom to the church.



 During the Holy mass, especially in the celebration of the sacrament of marriage there is a blessing of the rings followed by the exchange of rings. While they exchange both make promises to be faithful until death to each other before the priest presider. After on their return from church, the newly wedded couple comes to the grooms house and the grooms mother put a gold chain on the brides neck and place the"saddo" on her shoulder.



Then they proceed to the venue for the reception where the wedding cake is cut and all dancing and merrymaking takes place with food and drinks being served. A toast is also raised for the happiness and prosperity for the married couple .the couple than dance to the tune played by the band, later accompanied by the rest, there by joining in their joy. Giving of gifts. Dancing and sharing in the agape all add to colour of the rainbow of love and joy of marriage celebration.


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